Your Sub-conscious Mind drives YOUR PORN ADDICTION-Behavior.
Did you know? We all do certain things out of our conscious mind found in the front of our brain, whereas most of our actions/reactions are dependent on our subconscious mind (found in the back of our brain).
Each mind (subconscious and conscious) are like reflex action in some ways, but different in many ways.
Physical Reflex Action & fight flight freeze
In the case of a physical reflex action, there is some action or disturbance in or around you, and before you know or you realize it, your body reacts to the disturbance with fight flight freeze. But immediately after the reflex action, you know how your body has reacted.
Emotional Reflex Action & fight flight freeze
However in the case of our emotional reflex action our subconscious behavior or the ‘mental reflex action’, most often, our conscious mind is not even aware that we have reacted to certain subconscious stimuli. This is key to resolving your porn addiction.
Arrested Emotional Development
It is said by many that the conscious mind is logical, analytical. The Subconscious mind is illogical because of “Arrested Emotional Development” from childhood (the root cause of non-logical subconscious reaction to emotional stimuli).
Since most of our behavior is governed by the subconscious mind, you can imagine what will be the outcome… porn addiction etc.
Your Core Issue isn’t Porn Addition…
that is your symptom…
It’s your subconscious mind ...THAT IS AT THE CORE!
Most of our unnatural or abnormal behavior is due to the second category of Emotional Reflex Action & the fight flight freeze items in us beyond our consciousness.
These are the items of which we formed some judgments about ourselves (“I’m not ok”) in our childhood…then these get reinforced into our subconscious mind. Or these ‘issues’ could be associated with some embarrassing experiences when we had to be ashamed of our own self, creating negative judgment about ourselves.
These are generally the things that we would like to forget about and not think about – we mostly try to push them under the ‘carpet’ and not think of them. They eventually leave our conscious mind, but remain in our subconscious mind.
EMOTIONAL PAIN POINTS
These are your subconscious ‘pain points’ and the root cause of your porn addiction.
Your porn addiction is the most predictable and un-controlled when you experience any of your subconscious pain points.
Incidents in life or comments of people around you may continuously touch your conscience, but you may not react till it pricks on the subconscious pain point and then the reaction is again “Oooi..!!”. Different people have different emotional pain points. Hence the same experience may not affect one person but may upset another.
When we experience these subconscious pain points, we are overcome with some strange senses and our reaction may not be very controlled (PORN ADDICTION).
These could well be the same feelings and sensations that you first had when you had the unpleasant experience as a CHILD, and which you all along tried to push under the carpet and banish from your mind.
In such EMOTIONAL situations, we become absolutely helpless in our actions. We are totally driven and not in control. Whenever we face that emotional situation which touches our subconscious EMOTIONAL pain point, we always compulsively react with very little control. However hard we try and decide to act differently, when it comes to the real moment, we are helplessly overcome by that same sensation and feeling and we act predictably (against our wish) based on our subconscious mind.
Did you know? We all do certain things out of our conscious mind found in the front of our brain, whereas most of our actions/reactions are dependent on our subconscious mind (found in the back of our brain).
Each mind (subconscious and conscious) are like reflex action in some ways, but different in many ways.
Physical Reflex Action & fight flight freeze
In the case of a physical reflex action, there is some action or disturbance in or around you, and before you know or you realize it, your body reacts to the disturbance with fight flight freeze. But immediately after the reflex action, you know how your body has reacted.
Emotional Reflex Action & fight flight freeze
However in the case of our emotional reflex action our subconscious behavior or the ‘mental reflex action’, most often, our conscious mind is not even aware that we have reacted to certain subconscious stimuli. This is key to resolving your porn addiction.
Arrested Emotional Development
It is said by many that the conscious mind is logical, analytical. The Subconscious mind is illogical because of “Arrested Emotional Development” from childhood (the root cause of non-logical subconscious reaction to emotional stimuli).
Since most of our behavior is governed by the subconscious mind, you can imagine what will be the outcome… porn addiction etc.
Your Core Issue isn’t Porn Addition…
that is your symptom…
It’s your subconscious mind ...THAT IS AT THE CORE!
Most of our unnatural or abnormal behavior is due to the second category of Emotional Reflex Action & the fight flight freeze items in us beyond our consciousness.
These are the items of which we formed some judgments about ourselves (“I’m not ok”) in our childhood…then these get reinforced into our subconscious mind. Or these ‘issues’ could be associated with some embarrassing experiences when we had to be ashamed of our own self, creating negative judgment about ourselves.
These are generally the things that we would like to forget about and not think about – we mostly try to push them under the ‘carpet’ and not think of them. They eventually leave our conscious mind, but remain in our subconscious mind.
EMOTIONAL PAIN POINTS
These are your subconscious ‘pain points’ and the root cause of your porn addiction.
Your porn addiction is the most predictable and un-controlled when you experience any of your subconscious pain points.
Incidents in life or comments of people around you may continuously touch your conscience, but you may not react till it pricks on the subconscious pain point and then the reaction is again “Oooi..!!”. Different people have different emotional pain points. Hence the same experience may not affect one person but may upset another.
When we experience these subconscious pain points, we are overcome with some strange senses and our reaction may not be very controlled (PORN ADDICTION).
These could well be the same feelings and sensations that you first had when you had the unpleasant experience as a CHILD, and which you all along tried to push under the carpet and banish from your mind.
In such EMOTIONAL situations, we become absolutely helpless in our actions. We are totally driven and not in control. Whenever we face that emotional situation which touches our subconscious EMOTIONAL pain point, we always compulsively react with very little control. However hard we try and decide to act differently, when it comes to the real moment, we are helplessly overcome by that same sensation and feeling and we act predictably (against our wish) based on our subconscious mind.
YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND IS THE KEY TO YOUR PORN ADDICTION!
PORN ADDICTION Recovery is an ongoing, and possibly lifelong process for many unless the right psychotherapy method is used.
More about the PORN Treatment Method I recommend by clicking the link ABOVE "Sex Addiction Treatment Cure".